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Gene Shiau's avatar

I've been contemplating this piece for a week. There is so much to agree and so much yet to explore about this topic.

Westerners are unlikely to be familiar with the name Mencius, who was regarded in Chinese history as the successor of Confucius. The story goes (an English version can be read here: http://chinese-story-collection.blogspot.com/2016/08/mencius-mother-moving-three-times-meng.html) that Mencius's mother, a widow, moved her family three times in search of a better neighborhood to raise her son. Children imitate what they see, so having an environment that exhibits the characters we want to foster in our children is on top of every parent's mind. I would suggest this environment we want our children to immerse in (rather than calling it "imitate from") is the umbrella above all measurable rankings like school safety, diversity, and academic readiness.

Whether or not it's worth paying a premium for a home near a high-ranking school then becomes a discussion of parents' stated and implicit core values. I am going to state a few intentionally polarized values:

* Is the family valuing the Ivy League over state universities and community colleges?

* Is the family valuing certain career paths more than a laissez-faire development?

* Is the family valuing a like-minded and similar-status peer group and its network leverage over a diverse formative experience?

* Is the family valuing "rising tide lifts all boats" when it comes to tax money distribution to schools, or is the family valuing a hyper-local resource distribution because it sees public school system and government system as inefficient and wasteful?

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Morrison's avatar

....and I add - I have been thoroughly pleased with my children's teachers at Herndon Middle and Herndon High. Teachers everywhere I believe are underpaid and underappreciated.

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